I lost my father to heart disease in 2007. A few days prior to this, I had left the country on a family vacation but returned as soon as I learned how dire his situation was. In fact, when I learned that he’d died, in the middle of the night, at home, surrounded by my mother and brother and sister, I was a mere two hours away on the interstate driving in hopes of making it in time. I did not.
In the weeks that followed, seeking still some closure and perhaps a little absolution for being the only one not present when he took his last breath, I often visited my mother and the house she shared with him. There, I would wander around like some ill-informed ghost hunter, looking over the things he had owned, the projects and hobbies and such with which he spent his time: books, tools, containers, cartons of things he’d collected in his seventy-six years.
“Reading departure signs in some big airport, reminds me of the places I’ve been. Visions of good times that brought so much pleasure make me want to go back again.” —Jimmy Buffett, Changes in Latitudes, Changes in Attitudes
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